| 16 |
Push the patient to “church-hop,” judging congregations for style, politics, or personalities, so he never settles long enough to receive grace. |
Perseverance in an imperfect local church is itself an act of humility and obedience. |
| 17 |
Exploit “gluttony of Delicacy”—not excess food, but the self-centered demand that every little preference be met (“all I want is …”)—to breed irritability. |
True temperance is self-forgetful gratitude, not merely austere restraint. |
| 18 |
Twist modern slogans about “falling in love” so the patient confuses transient feelings with the vow of marriage, either idolizing romance or fearing commitment. |
Love is an act of the will ordered to charity; feelings follow but cannot replace covenant fidelity. |
| 19 |
Encourage him to make “unselfishness” his end—so he secretly congratulates himself on sacrifice and resents others when his hidden program isn’t noticed. |
Charity aims at the other’s good, not at curating a moral self-image. |
| 20 |
Feed sexual day-dreams: either unattainable “spiritual” beauties or vulgar false ideals—keeping him from loving an actual, embodied woman within God’s design. |
Chastity begins in the imagination; gratitude for real people replaces fantasy. |
| 21 |
Inflame his sense of “my time,” “my things,” and “my rights,” so every small interruption feels like theft. |
Time and possessions are gifts held in stewardship; gratitude dissolves possessiveness. |
| 22 |
Use fatigue to trigger irritability, then conceal God’s presence by noise and “nothingness”—lulling him with small comforts and petty grievances. |
God may feel absent, yet perseverance in prayer under dryness matures faith. |
| 23 |
Promote fashionable “historical Jesus” quests that reduce Christ to a moral teacher and keep the patient chasing novelties instead of obeying revelation. |
Authentic faith submits to the Jesus of Scripture, not the latest reconstruction. |
| 24 |
Turn his fiancée’s sincere piety into spiritual pride; make him measure her holiness—and his own—against others with contempt. |
True holiness produces humility and compassion, not superiority. |
| 25 |
Craft an addiction to “the horror of the Same Old Thing,” driving him to boredom and restless change for its own sake. |
Christian faith sanctifies routine; stability cultivates depth and joy. |
| 26 |
Distort the lovers’ generosity into mutual black-mail: each demands gratitude for sacrifices, breeding bitterness. |
Love gives freely and thanks freely, refusing to keep score. |
| 27 |
Make him overvalue spontaneous feelings in prayer; when dryness comes he will presume prayer “failed” and give up. |
Faithfulness endures aridity, trusting God beyond emotional consolation. |
| 28 |
Lull him with safety, prosperity, and long life—worldly delay that keeps death (and decisive repentance) out of mind. |
Remembering mortality sobers the soul and spurs readiness for eternity. |
| 29 |
In wartime air-raids, swing him between cowardice and reckless bravado; either extreme chokes reason and charity. |
Courage is a mean between fear and rashness, anchored in trust. |
| 30 |
As severe bombing arrives, stoke “fatigue and anger” so the patient snaps at loved ones and wallows in self-pity. |
Suffering can enlarge patience and love when offered to God moment by moment. |
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